Archive for November, 2005

excerpts extravaganza part 1

Thursday, November 3rd, 2005

noone in this world can dictate to you where you can be happy…if you know where and what it is, GO FOR IT! … happiness comes from within, not from someone else…

always tell someone how you feel…mean what you say and say what you mean even when it is hard coz opportunities are lost in a blink of an eye but regrests can last a whole lifetime…

the reason we refuse to let go of a person we love is because we are afraid to be alone…but if that person doesnt love us, than being with him doesnt make any difference…we would have someone beside us but still be alone … the real essence of a relationship lies in the basic foundations of love that is shared by two and not just felt by one… it is in giving and not in taking that we experience the real meaning of love… it is in loving and not in wanting to be loved in return that we find real happiness…

more to come…

on friendships…

Wednesday, November 2nd, 2005

tell me your friends and i’ll tell you who you are…

love them and leave them aka player: it is not always the case but this friend has had her take in relationships…she’s been through a lot and i mean  A LOT… but still she holds her head up high and never regretted a single thing in what she’s done…sowing any wild oaths? hm…makes me wonder…are you safe?! hahahaha nevertheless, if i need the brutal truth i come running to her… she’s one friend who will never tell you what you WANT to hear but instead tells you what you NEED to hear…

the martyr aka stupid: we’ve said our piece to this one explicitly but she just walked all over us on it…a masochist by heart…i think her motto’s ‘better suffer than be single’…one word, dear friend: BULLSHIT! hahaha at time’s people misunderstand the way she talks, sees things and attitude but in all fairness to this one, in all the years that i’ve known her we had not a single fight…

shy but not so aka flirt: if you look at her she seems like the type of gurl who’s so maria clara…then again, didnt maria clara fall for ibarra?…she gets wound up whenever she doesnt have a "boylet"…she has to have one all the time and asap! but still, she’s single….she has loads of loads to spare, hence, the constant need for a guy textmate…oh well…to each his own, right? dont you get tired, though? don’t go searching for love…it will come to you…patience is a virtue you do not have… however, whenever you need to talk to someone, she may not have the right things to say but she will just listen to you which for me helps a thousand fold…

quiet but settled: a smile is enough and a joke even corny ones go a long way with this one…maybe that’s why among all of us she’s the happiest with her beau…she’s a beauty, simplified…

tomboyish no more: among all of us i think this one’s the most responsible … she’s willing to sacrifice her own happiness for a greener pasture and i applaude her for that…now, all the hardword is paying off…not only does she have a career she also has a boyfriend to share it with…though, i think she mentioned boyfriends?! O_o;;;

sometimes i wonder why am i friends with these people? why do we click? do we have anything in common at all?

someone once told me that your friends are the family you choose…i beg to differ, i think, my friends are given to me just like my real family…it is not a choice but an appointment….

my friends and i may not always see eye-to-eye but we love and treasure each other dearly…we may be obtuse but we are right… ^_~

here’s to the rollercoaster years we’ve had and may we grow more fond of each other as times move forward…